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My story . Why bad things happen to good people . ..



Joyce Meyer addresses the topic of unfortunate events occurring to good individuals. I would like to expand on this message by sharing a portion of my own testimony and the message from God as it relates to my personal experience.


Embracing Humility and Faith Through Life's Trials

It is essential to recognize that no human is truly good, only Jesus. He alone is without sin and worthy of being a sacrifice. By worldly standards, I might be considered good, often perceived as morally upright by many, though not by all.

In the eyes of others, I am seen as a woman who does not curse and lives according to her beliefs, despite being human and continually striving to reflect His image. I have much to learn and accomplish, but those who care for me hold me in high regard.

However, I have faced numerous challenges, akin to the trials of Job and Jonah. I've questioned God about these trials, even as I navigate current adversities that threaten to overwhelm, despite my sincere efforts to please Him. Is my devotion insufficient? Thankfully, I have a deeper understanding of my God, as people judge based on limited knowledge and often misinterpret my intentions, viewing me as insincere or deceptive. I understand their confusion.

There is a difference between knowledge and understanding. I have gained understanding by listening and observing, realizing my limitations while acknowledging His boundless perspective. To comprehend His actions, I must elevate my thinking and perception, moving beyond worldly views to remember that He is God.

I believe I can offer insight into why, from a human perspective, bad things happen to good people by sharing aspects of my story. While there's much to convey, I will be thoughtful and discerning. The Lord advises us not to share sacred truths indiscriminately, meaning my story is intended for the right audience. God guides me to disclose my experiences at the appropriate time and place. In this narrative, I will discuss both a challenge I have overcome and one I am currently facing, confident in my eventual triumph based on past experiences. God has fulfilled every promise, and only a select few can truly attest to my journey. This should illuminate God's intentions, plan, and direction, providing clarity for me and others. I cannot speak for everyone, as God views us as unique individuals and addresses us accordingly.

I will candidly discuss my divorce after 24 years of marriage, sharing intense details that require respect, as this is my personal story. I extend the same respect to you. My goal is transparency, believing it will resonate with the right individuals and inspire healing. Thank you for your patience and understanding as I share my journey.

I married at 18, leaving behind trauma and instability in my childhood home. My husband was ten years older, from another country, and undocumented, introducing cultural and religious differences. Initially, I believed our shared belief in God made us compatible, a crucial element in a Christian marriage. At that time, I identified as a Christian, though I truly committed to God later. After becoming a mother, I refocused on Him, turning away from distractions. I hoped our shared creation would be my salvation. Once I dedicated my life to Christ, I prayed for my husband to do the same, realizing over time that he did not share my faith. Despite this, I persevered, learning about marriage through Christian teachings. I understood that God disapproves of divorce, with few exceptions. Over time, issues emerged, and eventually, God delivered a message to me, prompting me to say enough.

My ex-husband and I had been living separately for a long time. When a family friend needed support, I was already healing from years of grief. A new path emerged, and I moved on quickly after filing for divorce. My ex attempted reconciliation, but I was resolute. When he realized I was serious, his darker side emerged. The situation escalated to the point where the church intervened to bless my home and attempt to cast out demons. The experiences my children and I endured were severe, at one point leading my daughter to almost harm her father. Thankfully, my children have moved on and are thriving.

My children adjusted well to the changes, relieved that the darker days were over. They got along with my current partner, who became a protector for us. When things deteriorated, I had to leave, and my ex attempted to evict me. Despite the challenges, I found myself living with my mother and new partner, while my ex pursued another relationship. There were accusations of infidelity, but they were unfounded. Though technically still married, the relationship was over, with all legal matters settled except for the final judgment.

During this period, my son began acting out, influenced by time spent with his father. The situation escalated to the point where the police were involved. My son eventually stayed with his father, leading to further complications. Despite these challenges, I remained hopeful and focused on building a better future.

My partner and I have encountered false accusations, yet we continue to express gratitude to God. Despite these trials, we place our trust in His plan, believing that these experiences serve a greater purpose. We remain steadfast in our faith, confident that God accompanies us through every challenge.

The challenge we faced was the end of our years of marriage. I have survived this ordeal. Currently, I am navigating the difficulties of fighting for my children and my ministry. As I strive to rebuild, I am relying on government assistance, which has become another tactic used by my ex to undermine us. This situation has jeopardized my benefits, my children's medical care, and even my employment. I am my daughter's caregiver, and this is an ultimate attempt at obstruction and destruction. What many do not realize is that much of this stems from witchcraft practiced against me, as I have often been surrounded by individuals involved in such practices. This is fundamentally a spiritual attack.

I understand that this may sound unbelievable to some, and I am no stranger to being labeled as such.

During these events, God revealed spiritual insights to me, showing people in dreams and visions, as well as the spells and everything involved. God allowed me to perceive the demons sent to my home so that I could stand against them. He guided me on what needed to be done.

Since childhood, I have experienced visions and dreams of God and Jesus, who have come to encourage me. In times of need, I would pray, seeking answers and assurance of His love. God has consistently provided guidance and support.

I would not understand the power of resistance if I did not know temptation. I would not comprehend power if I did not have a reason to use it. Darkness has served as a perfect contrast to light, offering a comparison to all that is good. Now, knowing what I know through these experiences, I can choose love because I know hate. I can choose wholeness because I've been broken. When everything seems good, we often cannot discern if something is wrong or missing. I hope and pray this resonates with someone.

As I have mentioned, I have experienced many challenges and have much to share when the time is appropriate. I want to encourage anyone going through a similar season that enduring trials does not indicate that God is indifferent; in fact, it is quite the opposite. God knows your journey from beginning to end. In my case, God sees me as a finished product, knowing what and who I will become. He trusted me to embark on this journey, and my life and journey are not solely about me. We are all called together for the benefit of each other and for the good of God's kingdom. We often think it is all about us, but God wants—indeed, needs—us to open our minds and hearts to see that there is more. He is all-knowing, and what He does, He does with great wisdom, love, and real power, exercised under great restraint and control. He is in control, and the enemy has been conquered in His completed story. God uses all these experiences and brings good out of them. What the enemy intends for harm, God has a better plan.

 
 
 

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